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Know Your Teacher

2 Timothy 3:13-14 King James Version

13 But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.

14 But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, of whom thou hast learned them;

I think we all know this to be true.  Evil men and seducers are all around us, trying to lure us away from those things we know to be true.  They come by with new revelation, new theories, new translations, new interpretations.  These things get worse and worse as times goes on, distorting the true gospel and making it what it is not.  It is so important that we know our teacher and where they come from.

Knowledge is rampant in this world of ours.  People have so many avenues that they can search out and make up their own “truth” .  The many search findings that come up on.  Google, Bing, Yahoo and other search engines online can bring us a multitude of information at a milliseconds notice and we have to discern what is right and what is wrong.  Some men think a certain scripture passage means one thing and others think it means another.  This is why denominations arise, why churches spilt and why there is such division within our own churches.

Typically it is because people take one or two verses of scripture and ignore the other scriptures in regards to the same thing.  For example, let’s take the LGBTQ? Community.  Are we supposed to love them as they are?  Of course we are.  It is our command to love others and help them see their way to salvation in Jesus Christ.  But can they stay in that sinful state of behavior?  Not if they expect a home in heaven!  The Bible is very clear, in more than one place, that this behavior is sin.  Our problem is that we place mercy over truth, when in fact mercy and truth are side by side.  We must apply both to come to the truth about the way we should live.

Knowledge can also drive us away from the truth.  There are so many I have met who used to be lovers of God that are now atheist and I have had discussions with them.  They said once they learned about this, or learned about that, they decided God just could not be real.  So they gave up on God altogether.  Their worldly knowledge was more important to them than their heavenly connection.  Worldly wisdom surpassed Godly wisdom.  There are so many today who think man knows more than God.  The teaching of evolution proves this.  God says creation, man says evolution.  Creation is taught less and less ion our schools and evolution is taught more and more.  Man’s ways replace God’s ways.  This is becoming the norm rather than the abnormal.  It will lead to destruction because if we do not believe the beginning, how can we fully believe anything that happened after that?  How can we believe man was formed in God’s image?  That man was formed from the dust of the earth?  How can we believe original sin, the flood, Abraham, the plagues, the Red Sea parting? Denying one can easily become denying all.

I have a very good Catholic friend whom I believe is reading this post.  We have had lengthy email discussions on the subjects of Salvation, Truth, the Bible, the will of God, and many other topics.  We disagree on many things, but we also agree on many things.  We both have the ability to utilize scripture in backing up our beliefs.  I have learned a tremendous amount about Catholicism from him, and I believe he has learned a lot about evangelicals from me. I truly believe he is a very good teacher of the Catholic faith, as I have been told I am a good teacher of the evangelical faith.  If I was a Catholic, I would love to sit under his teachings.  We have gone back and forth over which one of us actually shares the truth in our faith.  He is thoroughly convinced that his version of what truth is can be the only truth.  I am convinced that what I am saying is truth.  Yet we have many disagreements.  But I believe our disagreement are over doctrinal issues, not what real truth is.  Doctrines are different all over the word, but the real truth is Jesus Christ crucified and risen again.  That is the gospel message we both share.  Giving our lives to Jesus Christ as a living sacrifice is the only truth that matters.  I think Him and I both agree on that!

The point I am trying to make is the same as what Paul is making in these verses.  There are many excellent teachers of the Gospel in the world.  There are also many who subvert the word of God and teach lies of half-truths.  We must be prepared to discern the truth from the heresy.  How do we do that?  Through reading the word and asking God for wisdom, which He says he will give to us if we ask (James 1:5).  It comes down to how much time and effort you have put into your own growth in His wisdom and knowledge.  Proverbs tells us that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.  That is where it starts.  Without a sense of the majesty and sovereignty of God, we will always fall for false teaching.  We must have a sense of just who God is.  Some of the teaching nowadays makes Hm out to be our buddy and our pal.  That demeans Him!  Father is a great term to use.  A father disciplines, teaches, corrects, rebukes and exhorts us.   He is loving in all his ways and only does what is good for us, even if we thinks it is not.  A good father holds us to a certain standard and expects his word to be obeyed by those in his household.  If it is not, there are consequences.  Not because the father is cruel or mean, but because he is the one who provides for us, protects us, gives us direction and purpose.  We owe him our lives.

Our heavenly father is no different. He always wants what is best for us, and often will allow us to fall into this trial or that trial in order to help us grow.  These trials should never cause us to turn away from God, but should draw us closer to Him.  He loves us so much that he gave His only Son to die on a cross!  Why would he ever allow something into our lives that will harm us.  So when you hear something that appears to be new “revelation” or just doesn’t line up quite right with what you have believed before, study it out.  This tries your faith but can be a great way to grow in wisdom and grace.  God has a great desire to see us grow and become disciples, not just believers!  A disciple is one who is disciplined in the word of God.  That discipline comes through listening to the right teachers and studying out what they say, not just taking it for truth.  The truth is Jesus Christ, and He alone can reveal the real truth to you.  Pilate asked Jesus “What is truth?”  The better question would be “Who is truth!”  The truth was standing right in front of him, and he did not see it.  Will you?

From Such Turn Away

2 Timothy 3:1-5 King James Version

3 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.

For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,

Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,

Traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;

Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

This is quite a list of people to turn away from.  The admonishment is not that we should not witness to these people groups mentioned here.  We MUST witness to them, but in the loving, gentle, patient way that we talked about in our last lesson.  The people on this list are certainly opposing themselves, and must learn to restore themselves to the place where God can guide their path.  They have lost their way and will have a hard time coming back if we are not apt to help them along.  The types of people mentioned here are indeed the hardest of all to witness to as well.  Most are so full of themselves there is no room for anyone else, especially God.  But if we can help to get just a little bit of themselves put to the side, there is where our opportunity is to chare the gospel with them.  We must watch for these moments carefully and take advantage when we see them arise.

The condition of these men is the reason perilous times have come.  When more and more people start to act on the manners described here our society starts to break down.  People will not care as much about others.  The neighborly manner in which we treat each other will slowly vanish.  Responsibility for one’s actions will disappear and accountability will vanish.  As a result, people will think they can do whatever they want with impunity.  If they are called out for their immoral behavior, the one who is on the right side will be called wring and will face persecution.  Right will become wrong and wrong will become right.  The biblical morality we once lived by will be replaced by an ever-changing worldly morality that will cater to the whim of those who have given into the lusts of the world. 

Can anyone truly deny that we are currently seeing this happen today more than just 10 years ago?  I can give a hundred examples of this but I will stick with a few.  We see school shootings and mass shootings going up all the time. Instead of centering on the critical problem that is driving these shootings, we say it’s the fault of the gun that person is handling.  Instead of doing a better job tracking and tacking care of those with mentality issues. We let them loose on a society that has little protection from them.  Instead of defending our schools in practical ways we simply lock the doors, making it even worse if a shooter does get in somehow.  The shooter is rarely held accountable as they should be.  They get a prison cell where they are catered to and the taxpayer pays for their life to the tune of $50,000 a year.  There they can finally get the help they need, but they rarely do.  Here we see these attributes form the list above: disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, fierce, despisers of those that are good.

The second example I will site is the prevalence of the gender identity discussion.  We are adding genders all the time instead of just looking at a person and knowing what sex they are biologically.  I hear on Facebook you can now choose from 56 different genders when choosing a sexual identity.  We wonder why our children are confused?  In our schools, it is taught that it does not matter if you identify as any of these genders.  All should be accepted for who they are and what they are.  In many states it is against the law to council those that are claiming such status as is against their biological identity.  You have to let them do whatever they want to do.  I cannot imagine what our society will look like when the next generation takes over.  It will be sexual nirvana for those who are raised in it, but total sexual chaos for everyone else.  In the list above, we see lovers of their own selves, covetousness, lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God, without natural affection and blasphemers in this group.

This is only the beginning of what we are seeing today.  Our society is falling farther short of the glory of God every day and people are caring less and less about it.  In fact, our minds are being numbed to what God wants as our ability to express disgust with these things is challenged more and more by what is becoming the mainstream.  Godly ways are called wrong, worldly passions are indulged in and no one seems to care.  It is harder and harder to find someone that will stand up for what is right and decent.  Harder and harder to speak the truth.  Harder and harder to witness to those whose hearts are gone so far away.

We must turn away from hanging around with such people all the time because we might get pulled into their own ditches and mistruths.  We might find ourselves sympathizing with them.  We must turn away from all these practices, which I am not going to try and explain one by one.  We must turn away from close friendships that might entangle us.  But we cannot turn away from doing everything we can to get them to trust us sop that we might bring the truth to them.  And we must present that truth in the method that Paul explains at the end of the previous chapter: with gentleness, patience and meekness.  We must slowly instruct them in the ways of a God who loves them just as much as He loves us.  God’s desire is to have them turn from their ungodly ways, to stop opposing themselves and to come back to Him.  Can we be such witnesses for the Lord?  They may all look on the outside like they are godly but they do not know God’s power to save.  Many would love to be saved from their ways, but they deny there is a power that can do that.  We must show them the power of God unto salvation that is Jesus Christ.  They need that power to touch their lives, and we can be the instrument of God to make that happen.  Let us not leave them to the devil’s whims.  Let us shine our light so brightly that they will be drawn to us!

Instruct Those that Oppose Themselves

2 Timothy 2:24-26 King James Version

 

24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,

25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth;

26 And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will.

 

What an interesting thought.  People that oppose themselves!  They are their own worst enemy.  Have you ever heard someone say that?  “I am my own worst enemy.”  I have – it was me.  Oh, I was having a good time.  Drinking all through the night, smoking pot, hanging with friends, enjoying good food and good times on a regular basis.  I was making good money and travelling where I wanted, when I wanted. I worked as a computer programmer back in the big computer era in the early 70’s, before PC’s even started to be thought of.  I was doing well.  I lacked nothing that I wanted.

 

But I was drowning.  Drowning in a sea of despair.  When I was alone, I was really alone.  I knew I needed more but I had no idea what that more was.  I was raised in the church, but had put it behind me and taken on the life of an agnostic.  I knew there was some power out there, but had no idea who it was.  I thought I was headed to heaven, but I was bound for hell and I didn’t even know what that meant.  We made jokes about partying in hell, not knowing what really awaited us there.  I was indeed my own worst enemy.  I opposed myself at every turn.  Thinking I was making the right turns when all the time I was going left.  I was lost!

 

I am so thankful for the men and women who slowly led me to the right place.  They took on the attributes mentioned here.  Gentle, patient teachers who were humble and approached me with meekness.  They instructed me about Jesus, about His love, about His mercy, about His sacrifice.  Over time I learned how to walk with the Lord and stop doing things that would oppose the spirit within me.  There are still times that the old man rises up again and tries to oppose me, but I have an adversary now.  I have one who will come alongside and help me through any situation I may get into.  He keeps me from opposing myself.

 

Now it is my turn to help those who oppose themselves, to pass on the blessing that has been given to me.  But I must do it the right way.  I cannot force Christ on them.  I cannot force them to conform to my idea of what serving Jesus means.  I must not strive with the, argue with them, manipulate them or be angry with them.  Paul gives us a great formula here for winning the lost to Christ.  First, we must be gentle.  Our words and our actions must be alluring so that they want to hear what we have to say.  We should not come from a position of power, but of meekness.  We must be patient with them as they try to find their way out of their own way.  Too often we get stuffed up in our pride and think they should come to maturity sooner.  We forget that they have been opposing themselves for a long time.  Transformation of the mind does not happen overnight!  It can take years to come out of the bondage and chaos that a troubled mind can leave.  Believe Me, I know.  But God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can think or imagine! (Ephesians 3:20).  We have a mandate to tell people about this amazing God we serve.  He is the one who sets the captive free!  Those who are in opposition to themselves will find the greatest advocate of all time when we introduce them to Jesus.

 

The truth is that those who oppose themselves are in the enemy’s clutches.  He has them right where he wants them, and has no desire tom let them go.  It is our responsibility to help them find themselves, to recover themselves, and become the person God designed them to be, not the one the enemy has tricked them into.  I was tricked by the enemy into a lifestyle of drugs, booze and sex.  The riches of this world trapped me into believing I was fulfilling the plan for my life.  But I was not even close to it.  I was in such opposition to the plan God had for me that I would not even begin to see His plan.  God’s plan was for me to be His witness, my plan was to be isolated and alone.  God’s plan was to have me minister the word; my plan was to hurt people with my words.   God’s plan was for me to sing the songs he gave me, my plan was to sing in silence.  God’s plan was there all the time but I did not see it.  I had to recover myself before I could see it.  The real me that God had created needed to be turned into the clay so the potter could mold it.  I was in the enemy’s hands.

 

I was so glad when God finally urged me into His plan.  There is so much more peace here.  So much more joy and so much more love.  There is little to fear and so much to be thankful for.  There is little doubt about who God wants me to be and a lot of faith that I can become that person.  Don’t get me wrong.  I still oppose myself at times.  There are still times that I do not walk where I should walk.  There are times the snare of the enemy tries to capture me once again.  But I have been set free and am no longer bound by it.  When the snare catches me, God quickly opens it and I escape.  That’s how much He loves me, and He loves you too!

 

How about you?  Are you opposing yourself today?  Are you living a life that is not in line with what God wants for you?  I ask you to come out of that place.  Come meet the Savior, Jesus Christ.  He can help you recover the real you and walk with God once again.  Just trust Him!

 

Teaching What Is Right

1 TIMOTHY 6:3-5

3 If any man teach otherwise, and consent not to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to the doctrine which is according to godliness;
4 He is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings,
5 Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself.

I often don’t understand this world of ours. I don’t understand how people can twist and turn words so that they fit their own agenda. I don’t understand how good can become bad and bad can become good. I don’t understand how the church can go after things that are not Biblical. It baffles me often, but then I read the scriptures and I am reminded that these things are all signs of the end times. Then I smile, knowing that the true believers will rise to meet Him in the air. What a glorious day that will be!

There are so many wolves clothed as sheep today and a deceptive gospel is preached everywhere you turn. It sound so good, so right, so on target that even the very elect are being deceived. Some would say it is not them but me who is deceived. Who is right? Only God knows this, but from what I have learned in my 40 plus years of following Christ tells me that this other gospel that is being taught lures people away from the lives God truly wants us to live. Lives of servanthood, not ruling. Lives of need, not full of worldly things. Lives of humility, not thinking God is at our beck and call. Lives of suffering, not of pleasure and all good things. Lives of continuous faith, not ask once and it’s yours. Lies of hunger, not of fullness.

I think of Proverbs 27:7 “The full soul loathes a honeycomb but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.” The depth of these simple words cannot be overlooked, but it is so often today in the church. We want things to be easy. We want to be uplifted every time we hear the preacher speak. We don’t want to hear about our sin and our need for correction in our lives. We want to hear God is good and he will answer our prayers. We don’t want to hear God judges sin and we are sinners that need redemption. We are surrounded by troubles, just like the honeycomb is surrounded by bees that can sting and kill depending on the type. It is sweet to the taste, and I desire that sweetness but do not want that repentance, the humility it takes to lay down my pride and allow God to transform me into His child. The sweet things of God are the most difficult for us to handle because they change us. They cause friction in our souls. They divide our soul like the piercing sword of Hebrews 4:12. Yet we turn from the sweetness of God’s call to humility and a life of servanthood. We despise the taste of those sweet words that were the picture of Christ on this earth. He was not rich. He did not have many possessions. He gave everything He had to touch others and reach out to them. He served the masses. He was not served by them. Yet the Pharisees despised the sweet words He spoke and taught. They despised the honeycomb of His wonderful teaching because it lured people away from them. Their pride got in their way.

You see, the honeycomb is not the sweet words of grace and love that are spoken by preachers like Joel Osteen and John Hagie. Oh, they preach sweet words, but their words come from a belief that God is at our command. God will do what we want Him to do. God empowers us to become rulers on this earth, people who have all they desire and live lives of blessing and fullness. They preach a message of love and grace that comes without sacrifice and suffering. Simply have the right words in your mouth and you will be free of struggles and wants in this world of ours. God must answer your prayers because His word says He will. He must do this, and He must do that. We simply have to ask and all fullness will come to us.

These words are sweet to our ears because they satisfy our fleshly desires on this earth. They are not surrounded by the stings of the bees like the honeycomb is. There is not a preaching of the struggles, the storms, the tribulation that we will go through. Jesus promised us this, Paul emphasized it. Both of them lived it. But those who are caught up in the name-it-claim-it gospel don’t want to hear the sweet words of suffering and sacrifice. They loathe it. They will tell you that you are dead wrong. That we are overcomers. They will say our prayers must be answered because God says if we ask, He will do it. They think God is a vending machine that takes prayers instead of coins. Put your prayers in and answers will flow out. And many of them experience this prayer answering machine type existence. They are being blessed in all ways as they walk in this faith. They are reaping worldly benefits by claiming the promises of scripture. The deception is rampant. Is God answering those prayers, or is the enemy coming alongside and fulfilling the prayers to bring these believers of a new gospel to a place of unknown deception. Are they despising the real message of Christ while living a life contrary to scripture even though it seems so right.

The full soul loathes the honeycomb. Full of themselves. Full of what appears to be Godliness only to see underneath dead men’s bones. Looking all adorned and ready to be fruitful only without fruit, like the fig tree that Jesus withered away because it appeared to have fruit and did not (Matthew 21:19). So many appear to have fruit and do not. Do these two preachers, and so many others who teach this prosperity gospel, have large churches? Of course they do. The preach a message that appeals to the flesh. Just pray and it’s yours. Believe and you shall have it. God loves you and will do whatever you ask. Just come to Him and ask Him to take you as His child. You don’t need to repent or change your life. Just know He loves you and that’s enough. It sounds like honey, but it is deception. A life that comes to Christ and does not change is not His! The preaching of Christ and John before Him does not change today. Repent was their cry. Turn away from the world and it’s trappings. Give yourself to serve others. Forgive all men their trespasses. The sweet words of repentance are loathsome to them.

But to the hungry soul, every bitter thing is sweet. Everything that brings us to humility is sweet. Everything that tears me away from my flesh so I live more in the Spirit is sweet. It may not be pleasant, but it is sweet. These are the words I need to hear to fully follow Christ. They do not make me proud or boastful about what God is doing in my life. They do not make me have a need to tell everyone how God is blessing me. In fact, most of what Jesus taught on the greatest sermon ever preached is not satisfying at all to our flesh. Blessed are the poor in spirit, blessed are the meek, blessed are those that hunger, blessed are they that mourn, forgive others, turn the other cheek, go the extra mile, seek forgiveness from those you have wronged. He did not preach a message of worldly gain, but of giving our lives away! The hungry soul heeds His every word and follows it as closely as he can. We do not become the proud, boastful ones who God is seemingly blessing at every turn. The bitter things in life are sweet because we know God is working to perfect us through the trials.

As you navigate this life, look at the entire message of the gospels and of Paul and see what they emphasize more. You will find that they talk of a suffering life, one that is filled with opportunities to serve, not to be served. A life filled wit hope, not with the riches of this world. A life of sacrifice, not of prosperity. A life of submission, not domination. A life of humility, not boasting. It is not a popular message in today’s church, but it is the truth. It can be bitter to our ears, but it tastes good to our spirit if we are in Christ. Please do not be deceived! Ask God to open your eyes to the true Scripture meaning. Ask God to show you what the calling of God on our lives truly means. Look at all the people God used in the Bible and see if you find any rich, demanding and proud people. You will not find them. God uses ordinary people like you and me. People who love His word, even when it is bitter to the ears. Come, sit at His table. He’s waiting for you.

Honoring Your Masters

1 Timothy 6:1-2

6 Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own masters worthy of all honour, that the name of God and his doctrine be not blasphemed.
2 And they that have believing masters, let them not despise them, because they are brethren; but rather do them service, because they are faithful and beloved, partakers of the benefit. These things teach and exhort

Paul now turns his attention to servants and their masters. One could read this and wonder how it applies to today’s world. One of the things we have to realize is that, in Paul’s time, there were not companies who hired employees to work for them. Each man worked at his own trade or they were apprentices or servants of others. From what I read the word employee is from the French word “employé” and started to be used in the US around 1850 to describe one who works for another. But isn’t a servant one who works for another? I would say that today’s employee is similar to Paul’s servant in these verses, and thus the admonition he gives here is very relevant, and also very ignored!

I have worked for many different “masters” or bosses and supervisors over the years. I have also been in that position myself. One of the things that always drove me crazy was the number of employees who would put down, disparage, mock and ridicule their bosses behind their backs. I saw a never ending stream of this at one company where I worked for twenty years, I have to admit I was even guilty occasionally. I would put my boss down for always being late om everything. I remember times we didn’t even leave the office until after the meeting we had 30 minutes away was supposed to start. She was impossible when it came to timetables. She was also a wild driver. She would have the phone in one hand, a pencil in the other taking notes and her leg on the steering wheel. Oh my, it was a wild ride on occasion.

No matter what she was like, the word of God says I should honor her. Do you have a boss that is hard to honor? I gave honor to her because she was my boss (and a part owner of the company) and because she deserved it most of the timer. Sure she had her quirks, but don’t we all? What gives me the right to disobey God’s word and hold back the honor that my supervisor deserves? There is no justification for dishonoring a master, or boss, or supervisor, or in my case a coordinator. I sell Aflac insurance. I am an independent agent. I am not employed and assigned tasks on a day to day basis. I make my own business happen. But I do have a Coordinator who helps guide me if I have questions. I am supposed to report numbers to her on a weekly, and sometimes daily, frequency. If I do not give these numbers to her, I am dishonoring her. I am refusing to do what she has asked me to do.

Paul then shares that if the person who is our master, (boss, supervisor, coordinator) is a believer in Christ then this principal of honor should be carried out without any hostility or anger toward them. He says “do not despise” which means do not get angry at their ways or resentful of their position. We should never be seen saying “I could do a better job then them” or “What a rotten decision that was.” Instead, we should be lifting them up and making them feel like our master, not just some other employee.. The reason for all this honor is simple. If we are showing dishonor to our supervisor by saying unkind things, that ruins our Christians testimony. It shows people that we are no better the world in the way we treat our superiors. We grumble and complain just as good as everyone else, even though the Bible tells us we should not grumble and complain (Philippians 2:14)! This is something the Christian community needs to work on – big time!

I see people who have gone to my church, or those I know are committed Christians, showing a lack of honor to their masters every day it seems. How can we be so naïve to think that God would look the other way? Doesn’t the word say in one place that when we do something to the least of those around us, it is the same as doing it for Christ (Matthew 25:40)? If that be the case, would you so talk about Jesus that way, or do such things behind His back? I hardly think so. I hope that you would show Jesus extreme honor as our Savior and Lord. And we should do the same to those we serve. God has put me in the role I am in. he has put those people in authority over me whom he thinks will help me be successful and who will teach me the lessons I need to learn. Why would I ever even think of showing dishonor to this one who guides my career?

How do we show honor to these masters of ours? There are several ways to show honor and most of them are right in the Bible! God doesn’t leave us single handed to try and figure this out ourselves. Let me share a few of the ways we can show honor.

1) Pray for those in authority over us (1 Timothy 1:2-3) We discussed this verse a few months ago (I have been slow in writing this blog). I know a lot of people hate Donald Trump, and a lot of people hated Barak Obama before him. Completely different crowd of haters. I wonder how many stopped complaining and started praying under either one. True, they are not our masters. But they are our leaders, whether we like them or not. They deserve honor and respect no matter what side of the aisle you are on. Our masters at work are the same way. They need our prayers every day. Maybe then we would change so that we would give them the honor God asks us to give to them.

2) Speak gracefully about them (Ephesians 4:29). Our mouths can be sewers, repositories for all things unclean. Way to often we allow ourselves to be overtaken by the enemies voice, who speaks to us things that are hurtful and abusive. We, in turn, bring those thoughts up from the depths of our heart to attack those around us, including our masters. All manner of corrupt communication comes out which is exactly what this verse tells us not to do. That is never God speaking. God speaks in words of grace, love and mercy. He speaks faith, not doubt. He speaks life, not death. What will you speak?

3) Be kind (Romans 12:10) Our world is running away from kindness. People want to be able to advance their agenda and they don’t care who they have to run over to do it. Etiquette has gone out the window. Please and thank you are a lost art, especially among our youth. We tell someone to do something instead of asking politely. Being kind is something that will show Christ to others about as fast as anything will. It shows others that we care about them and want what is best for them. It shows honor and respect for the other person. Be kind!

4) Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you (Matthew 7:12). The most basic of all human rules yet we miss it so much. If you were the boss how would you want to be treated? You will probably answer that question by saying I would want to be honored, respected, followed and regarded highly by my employees. If that is what you would want then why aren’t you doing that? That is the basic heart of the matter. Apply the golden rule to everything you do and say. Ask yourself constantly “Would I want someone to do or say that to me?” if your answer is not, then stop it immediately!

That’s a good list to start with. If you can accomplish those 4 things you are well on your way to bringing honor to those in authority. It does not matter how you are treated or what the boss is like. This is your responsibility. Do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9).